Going to college is a part of life that many young adults experience.
This can be a very different and big change for many, especially
when one has never been exposed to the many different types of
people that are found on this earth. A variety of backgrounds
and cultures can be found here at MTU. Just to give you an example
of how college life calls for changes, little slices of my life
have been extracted and for the first time put down on paper (and
on the web). Hopefully these glimpses of my life will show the
balance between the Mexican culture found in Texas and the culture
found here in Michigan. In reading, the differences between where
I grew up and what I have experienced
here
at MTU will become readily apparent.
I
lived in Texas and finished my freshman year of high school there.
I can say without hesitating that at least 99% of the population
was Mexican and Mexican-American. At school, English was the official
language. Needless to say, English was spoken most of the time,
but most teachers knew Spanish, so the language would slip once
in a while. When I was not in classes, Spanish was the preferred
language by all the student body. Then I moved to Michigan!
My
mother decided that Michigan was a better place for her children,
away from the high crime and drug usage rate found back in southern
Texas, so we moved to Suttons Bay. Here we were the minoritywith
very few, if any, Spanish speaking people. The move was very hard
on me; I would not say it was culture shock because I had seen
Michigan already and its people many times. It was the fact that
I had left all my friends and family behind. I am a pretty shy
person and to make new friends was not something I was looking
forward to. I had this feeling that nobody would want to talk
to me because I was Hispanic. I think it was more so that I did
not talk to anybody than because of the students' friendliness
that I did not make Caucasian friends.
I
think I was resistant to making friends in Michigan because people
were so different from the people I knew in Texas. In Michigan,
they did not know or speak the Spanish language, did not listen
to Spanish music, had different values and morals, and did not
view Mexicans as being a part of the community here but as people
that came up, worked as migrant workers, and then went back to
where they came from. I guess my main setback was that I did not
want to lose our Mexican traditions. However, every day that went
by, more and more English was spoken in the house and more and
more English music was being listened too as well. I had to find
a happy medium where I could enjoy the advantages of both cultures
(for example, a medium where I could enjoy both Spanish and English
music).